hey..
wat a funny day.. :D haha. all thx to mal n simon :P "top secret duty", huh? :P hahaha! i wonder wat happen to the world without them. its gonna be so boring. hehe
forgive me randall :P u know i wouldnt do anything bad to u :P u can trust me like i do trust u :P sorry again! :P
another stupid question of the day :P are we suppose to be satisfied with EVERYTHING we do? hmm. :/ i know2, another sensitive n stupid question. but, any of my question is related to myself. so, dun stop me! :P n i cant help it tho. sumtimes in any of our decision, it may be wrong n it may be hurt someone else's feeling. but, wen the decision is final, there should be no questions after that. no one has the power to ask or do anything wen the decision is already made. u dun haf to come out with another question that relate to it becoz it is already final. if u keep on asking the question, i bet, the problem will never end. n dont be suprise that u will be fighting with everyone except for ur certain someone. trust me :)
next, never think wat u did is already good enough. we should be better n better day by day. there's no limit. its not a satisfaction if u already did something that ppl is not happy with. no doubt that all the ppl will not be happy with ur decision. but, at least, respect the others. besides that, dont expect that ppl will accept everything u did. dun ever think wat u did is 100% satisfaction to everyone. u r wrong. sumtimes, that ppl may have other plan on u. so, we have to be prepared. dun think that the girl/boy is weak because
jangan sangka air yang tenang tiada buaya. i will always remember that.
u dun haf to be "very" outstanding. u just have to be urself. u dun haf to pretend to be strict or wtv. just be urself. natural. ppl will respect u more that way. its not a matter of losing frens or wat. im glad that even my "naughty frens" still say hie to me. remember, u will never be peace if u hurt someone's feeling. seriously. it happens to me. n i learned from my mistake. sumtimes, ur fren can be very2
important n dangerous. like i said, dun be suprise if ur fren will hate u to the max. u cannot blame ur fren 100%. u have to ask urself first. ask urself first before pointing ur finger to anyone else. remember.
never ever think that u are always right. u can be wrong sumtimes. its normal. we are not perfect. ppl made mistakes.
secara sengaja ataupun tidak sengaja. dun make any decision that satisfies urself. pls think bout the others. n
the others means, majority. not only ur 2/3 close frens. make sure before that, u should made some discussion with important ppl in ur life. it may help. sumtimes, u dun haf to show to the others that u are really great. just act normally n just do wtv u r suppose to do. (obviously u dun haf to do if its sumthing bad). we are big enough to think which is wrong n which is right. i dun haf to explain more on that, ait? :P
its normal for you to be
tension-ed n
kutuk-ed. by right, u should be prepared for all that. u will never run from problems. u will never be stressed up if u are smart enough to overcome n handle it. first, u just have to take it easy. although its sumthing BIG, u just have to take it easily. it doesnt mean that u just ignore bout it. NO! make sure it does not effect ur sleep, studies n ur
masa lapang. n the most important thing, pls keep to urself. u will never know wat ppl will do to u. its normal again for ppl to hate u. its
normal. u cannot make everyone happy. yeah. but, there must be a reason why ppl are not happy with u. dats why u have to ask urself, find out and from there,
improve urself. :) ececyh.
ala2 kaunselor la pulak :)sumtimes, its wrong for u to hate someone for only 1,2,3,4 or 5 reasons. u should think wat dat person contributed. think about that. i dun think u can handle it by urself without him/her. definitely. just think of that. i bet, u hate that person becoz he/she has been too much (physically or mentally). but, remember, he/she contributed sumthing for u. u shouldnt think the bad side of the person. think of the good side. from there, u will learn to forgive that person. :):):)
i read too much motivation book :P n i think-ed to much. aiyo~ rus2 -_____-" this post is just to be a
nasihat. ia tidak ada kaitan sama ada yang hidup atau mati :P i'm just saying it according to the book n wat i experienced n wat i felt. its general. it may be useful for urself. huhu~ like i said, i just cant help it! i like to ask myself :P its good ok? :P so, g2g. study time!
RuS
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